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Do not stop your search
before it actually started, read this mini-guide to
successfully find your Russian wife.
Introduction
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Method
1:
Do it yourself, using low-cost, effective and efficient services to
start searching for your
Russian lady
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Method 2:
Book a romance tour at our Tour Agency and meet 500-2000
women!
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Method 3:
Let
professionals do the work for you. Personalized service
for busy Professionals. Matchmaking using the
traditional way.
Note: There are other methods to find your Russian bride, for
example posting your profile on free dating-sites and
wait till someone will contact you. Due to many letters I
receive from men who tried this first, my experience is that free-dating
sites are a potential hot-bed for dating-scammers. For this reason I can
not recommend this method as an absolute safe and reliable method.
Introduction to start searching for a Russian wife
The following information is indispensable for men who are truly serious in finding, and finally marrying a Russian woman. We will describe the different phases
that you will encounter during the entire
process. Because every single man has his own personal preferences in
finding his Russian lady, we will describe three methods that you can use as a
general guideline. This information can help you to create your
success, and it also could prevent you from possible disappointments.
Why am I writing this mini guide and why am I trying to convince you
that this information can be the key for your success. I can
give you only one reason: 'Men often don't listen".
I don't want to insult you, but some time ago, after
reading and responding our daily visitors mail, I asked
my husband, 'how is it possible that most men really
don't know what to do to get in contact with Russian
women or to maintain an online correspondence
with a Russian lady'. 'Why can't they even write a
proper introduction letter, while almost every website, related
to Russian women, are in general giving the same advice (or offer
you a service to do it for you) to all these men, but still some
men think they know it better'.
My husband was staring at me for a while, then he only could say: 'I
guess it is because we never
listen, because we always know better, because we always want to
do the things by our self, because we sometimes do not want to
admit that other persons sometimes know specific things better then we do (especially when 'these persons' are
women), because we sometimes are a little pigheaded and
most of the time we are impatience too and we also are a little
bit shy sometimes, but we never will admit that!
Well, this was very honest of him isn't it? (in fact it
was me who helped him a bit :-).
But to be serious, this must sound
familiar to
you, or did I touched your pride and left us right away? I don't
think you did, although this sounds a little bit cynical, you know
it's true, that's why you still are here. If you want to find
your Russian wife too, then let people help you, let us
help you, by keep on reading and don't think it is a
piece of cake, because I can assure you, it is not!
If you see those thousands online photo's of beautiful
single Russian girls and women, then it could give you
the impression that you just have to throw a coin,
choose one of them, write an email that your are
interested and marry the girl in a couple of month's.
But it doesn't work that way!
Many men think that Russian women will grab the first man who
writes them, like they are really desperate. I am sorry to
tell you, but Russian women who are looking for a new (foreign) partner
are certainly not desperate. On the contrary, they really know
exactly what they do and what they want and they have a lot of
patience to achieve their ambition to marry a western man. These
women really know what it means if they really get involved in a
serious relationship with a foreign man, but the question is, do you know what to do or what the consequences are?
My website has a lot of information pages with different kind of advice related to
finding Russian women, but did you know that,
already for month's, our 'Dating Scams'
page is the most visited one, and our Advice
and Information pages are the less visited ones and both you
can easily access from any page of our site. This gives me the impression
that most people want to read articles about things what already
has happened but no articles to prevent them from possible undesired
experiences.
Of course, any information about dating scams can be of great
value for you, but at this moment I have the feeling that some
people are getting paranoid about this infamous phenomenon and
focus too much about the bad experiences others have
encountered. If you do the right things from the
beginning, then nothing unpleasant will happen to you.
Information, advice and consultation related to dating scams is
only 'part' of the total information package you need to gather
before you start looking for a Russian woman. Listening,
believing and adopting the
value of good information and advice about Russian women in general
must have a high priority for you. Online authors are not
writing articles about this subject just for fun. Some
people wrote complete books about 'How to..." or about
their life-story and many other people wrote and are
still writing free-to-read (like our website) articles
about the whole process. All these men and women do this
based on their own experience, so these 'stories' are
not fictive and they only do this to help you and all single Russian women. You will notice, that if you read other articles too,
that we all have the same similarity, only the persons involved
are different.
Please use this information and interpret it in your own way.
Read the three different method's carefully and choose
which one suits best your personal preferences.
Some
general actual facts.
At this moment, dating websites are still growing like grass on a
warm rainy spring day.
Just type the most used (key) words 'Russian women"
in for example www.google.com
and you will see a result of millions matching these two
keywords. Most
of them are related to the Russian women dating business. If
this is your way to start finding your Russian woman, then you
really should read my pages.
Simultaneous with the fast growth of these dating websites, the 'dark' side of this business is
unfortunately growing too, which is the
infamous "Dating Scam Ghost" who is watching you at
every dark RW-dating corner, waiting to get you at the right
moment. Also these two words (dating scam) will give
you a large result of links in any search engine. I admit, it's really frightened how
fast this unwanted phenomenon is growing too. But it is
certainly no reason to give up your search for your Russian
bride, just prepare yourself in a proper way and no unpleasant things
will happen to you.
The number of Russian (and of course all other CIS countries
too) women, who are looking for a new (foreign) life partner, is
extremely growing, together with the number of single men who try
their luck on the web. Because online dating is very popular.
Although all related (above) subjects are growing (in number),
the numbers of successful new couples are NOT growing in the same
way. In fact it looks like the number of successful
international relationships is even decreasing. Most men
stop already after some hours or days surfing on the web,
because they think, that this is too difficult to make it to a
success.
Other reasons are that for most men it's difficult to
choose, because there are so many women profiles on the web,
there is just too much choice. Another reason is that most men doesn't
know how to start, or doesn't know the importance of their first
(introduction) letter to the Russian woman or finally, are afraid to be
scammed.
We will give you three method's, that can be a guide for
you, how to find and marry your Russian woman.
You will understand that it's impossible for us to write down
every possible method to find your specific Russian woman. But
reading these three methods can give you enough information to
create your own personal way to find, meet and marry your
Russian bride.
Before you visit the next pages, please continue reading:
The very first thing you should ask yourself is, are you really
convinced that you want to marry a Russian woman? I explain
several times in other pages of this website that finding a
Russian woman is a complete different process then finding or meeting a
woman in the 'usual' way. Due to the practical
complexity you will undertake, it will not give you the same flexibility
as you will have during the usual way in building a new
relationship. The women you will meet 'online' are already
prepared for marriage and prepared to move to another country. The
question is, are you?
You should realize that the moment your Russian lady is coming
to your country, she will be at least your fiancée or even
already your spouse.
Don't think you can invite your Russian girlfriend into the US
before you have meet her in person, preferable in her own
country. This means you have to travel to her for at least a
week, preferable 2 weeks to give each other a chance to know
each other. During these two weeks you both have to make an
important decision, you continue your relationship and start
make preparations for a K1-fiancee visa (US) or immigration
visa for other countries, or you both decide to stop the relation
because there wasn't a match. Therefore it is important to learn
from each other as much as possible during the correspondence period, using letters,
email and phone conversations. You probably need a
translation service too. Beside that, from the moment you
start your first contact, you both have to keep copies of any evidence,
like emails, photo's, tickets, bills, etc. of your relationship
with each other. You need this for the (K1) visa procedure.
Before you start your search, you also have to be certain that
you can qualify for applying a K1-fiancee visa. You must pass
the questionnaire of the new
UMBRA law (only for US men), you must have a regular job
with a regular income and you need to have a house, or apartment
were both can live.
But if all these things are not a problem (which is for almost
any men), then I can tell you, it's all worth it!
The second thing you should do, before starting your 'hunting', is to read about Russian women,
the Russian culture and Russia in general. It's very important
to have at least some knowledge of the Russian culture- and moral
differences between our culture. It's also useful to take a look at the
Russian geography. It would be nice, if
one of the women you are
corresponding with lives for example in the city Perm, that you
at least know
where Perm is (geographical) situated.
I suggest you visit any topic of my Information and advice
pages, including my Tips & Articles and finally
read Elena Petrova's new book and your first attempt to find
your Russian bride could be already your last. Avoid any
complicated issues by reading this book!
My dear visitor, if you still are convinced you want to go
through the entire process, just for the reason you truly
want
to find and marry a Russian woman, then read the three different
methods I wrote for you (and of course all other topics of my website too) and find out by yourself what the best
method (or combination of these 3) is for you. Don't forget,
these 3 methods are only general example
guides to give you an impression what you can expect during the
whole process and what the differences are between these three.
Finally it's you who has to decide how you will find and marry
your Russian woman.
But after reading these pages, I am sure you will have much more
information and hopefully some ideas of your own, how to (re)start
or continue
your search for your Russian woman.
After reading these pages, you always can contact us and ask
questions about anything you like. I would be happy to answer
them.
-
Method
1:
Do it yourself, using low-cost, effective and efficient services to
start searching for your
Russian lady
-
Method 2:
Book a romance tour at our Tour Agency and meet 500-2000
women!
-
Method 3:
Let
professionals do the work for you. Personalized service
for busy Professionals. Matchmaking using the
traditional way.
